Comments on: Should I tell my husband I had an affair? http://www.dominicacentral.com/general/lifeline/should-i-tell-my-husband-i-had-an-affair.html Fair & Unbiased Dominica News Sat, 21 Jan 2012 15:47:25 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: anna http://www.dominicacentral.com/general/lifeline/should-i-tell-my-husband-i-had-an-affair.html/comment-page-1#comment-16811 anna Fri, 21 Oct 2011 07:36:03 +0000 http://www.dominicacentral.com/?p=1839#comment-16811 Dont tell him. It's your guilt dont burden him with it. God will forgive you but you must also forgive yourself. He doesnt deserve to knkow cost its your mistake. Confession is for God's ears Dont tell him. It’s your guilt dont burden him with it. God will forgive you but you must also forgive yourself. He doesnt deserve to knkow cost its your mistake. Confession is for God’s ears

]]> By: hoda http://www.dominicacentral.com/general/lifeline/should-i-tell-my-husband-i-had-an-affair.html/comment-page-1#comment-4999 hoda Sun, 12 Sep 2010 08:24:47 +0000 http://www.dominicacentral.com/?p=1839#comment-4999 tell him the truth .. this happened to me .. he told me late .. and I wished he was honest to be me from the beginning... tell him and let him know that u care about him and that u will not force him to stay with you because it might be tough to be around you for the first days after he finds out .. . tell him the truth .. this happened to me .. he told me late .. and I wished he was honest to be me from the beginning…
tell him and let him know that u care about him and that u will not force him to stay with you because it might be tough to be around you for the first days after he finds out .. .

]]> By: Jenn http://www.dominicacentral.com/general/lifeline/should-i-tell-my-husband-i-had-an-affair.html/comment-page-1#comment-4902 Jenn Tue, 07 Sep 2010 18:20:27 +0000 http://www.dominicacentral.com/?p=1839#comment-4902 I would not tell him! If he's very sensitive, it might hurt him to the point things could never be the same because of the way he would feel. If this was something you were continuing in, THEN I would say you need to think about whether or not you want to be married anymore and do the right thing by telling him. However, from what you're saying this is clearly a mistake made in the heat of the moment. Forgive yourself first and find a counselor you can talk with to help to get past the guilt. I would even leave the job if I were you. This might help you move on! But don't tell him! You are sorry and made a mistake... you're not LIVING deceptively. There's a HUGE difference between the two. I would not tell him! If he’s very sensitive, it might hurt him to the point things could never be the same because of the way he would feel. If this was something you were continuing in, THEN I would say you need to think about whether or not you want to be married anymore and do the right thing by telling him.

However, from what you’re saying this is clearly a mistake made in the heat of the moment. Forgive yourself first and find a counselor you can talk with to help to get past the guilt. I would even leave the job if I were you. This might help you move on!

But don’t tell him! You are sorry and made a mistake… you’re not LIVING deceptively. There’s a HUGE difference between the two.

]]> By: n http://www.dominicacentral.com/general/lifeline/should-i-tell-my-husband-i-had-an-affair.html/comment-page-1#comment-866 n Sat, 19 Dec 2009 17:43:33 +0000 http://www.dominicacentral.com/?p=1839#comment-866 HELL NO!!!!! TELL HIM THE TRUTH OR U WILL FILL GUILT FOR THE REST OF U LIFE HELL NO!!!!! TELL HIM THE TRUTH OR U WILL FILL GUILT FOR THE REST OF U LIFE

]]> By: faithful http://www.dominicacentral.com/general/lifeline/should-i-tell-my-husband-i-had-an-affair.html/comment-page-1#comment-848 faithful Fri, 18 Dec 2009 18:14:44 +0000 http://www.dominicacentral.com/?p=1839#comment-848 i think that the only way u will get over it is to talk to your husband about it. would u prefer that he finds out from someone else instead of you? sometimes the fear that you have if you tell him might not be worth it. think deep, pray and im sure in time you will see the best way out of your situation i think that the only way u will get over it is to talk to your husband about it. would u prefer that he finds out from someone else instead of you? sometimes the fear that you have if you tell him might not be worth it. think deep, pray and im sure in time you will see the best way out of your situation

]]> By: AbovetheFold http://www.dominicacentral.com/general/lifeline/should-i-tell-my-husband-i-had-an-affair.html/comment-page-1#comment-659 AbovetheFold Thu, 26 Nov 2009 00:21:25 +0000 http://www.dominicacentral.com/?p=1839#comment-659 Bull Shit, say nothing..do everything else you were advise to do except tell him. It was a mistake, let it be, it does not have to ruin your marriage by telling him. Let it go. Bull Shit, say nothing..do everything else you were advise to do except tell him. It was a mistake, let it be, it does not have to ruin your marriage by telling him. Let it go.

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